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Femdom with Blackmail

Femdom is empowering and fulfilling in ways that Miss RinRin could never see another ‘job’ living up to. She heard from so many of the subs she interacts with that Femdom has given them renewed purpose in life, their professional Dommes having given them the guidance and direction they needed to become a person that they can be proud of.


Some have even told her that finding a Domme has saved their lives, digging them out of depression and helping them fend off anxiety issues. Femdom is so much more than a different type of “porn,” it’s a real connection between two people who can each make each other’s lives better in some way.

 
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The Blackmail Fetish

\Miss RinRin thinks blackmail fetish was one of her first loves in the femdom world. The way she approaches blackmail starts with a session wherein she will discuss the sub’s limits, weekly tribute amount, the time frame of the contract, buyout clause, additional add ons such as session or assignment requirements, etc. Then she will give a contract for the sub in question. The sub will agree to it and sign it, along with filling out his information and sending over any pictures or videos they might have. That’s when the real fun starts.


Miss RinRin receives tributes from the sub being blackmailed. Many also enjoy financial domination, which means she can enjoy asking for more cash just to watch them squirm, knowing full well that if they don’t pay, then they will be exposed.


What she enjoys most about blackmail fetish, though, is the control it affords. She feels that blackmail fetish is one of the few ways that distance domination can have real consequences.  Once Miss RinRin has information on a sub, she can easily use that to extract even more information, pictures, videos, social media passwords, anything she wants! The subs know that if they fail to provide, or don’t follow through on a task, or miss a tribute then Miss RinRin will just expose their pictures and information on my websites and social media for all the world to see.


The threat of being outed is a huge motivator, and the risk can be extremely arousing for her subs. A lot of fetishes involve risky behavior, and what can be riskier than having your information and even face pictures of you performing humiliating acts on display to strangers? It’s especially damning when everyone knows you literally asked for it…

 
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Characteristics Of A Good Sub

It really varies from Domme to Domme, but as for Miss RinRin, respect is key. Even if it is the first time you’re contacting Miss RinRin or any of the Panda Playhouse Staff, do not use pet names like “baby” or “hey sexy.” If you’re thinking of serving Miss RinRin as your Superior Goddess, act like it.


Second is communication and honesty. Not everyone can complete every task or fulfill every desire for everyone, but everyone can communicate and be truthful about their own abilities and can learn to take responsibility for their actions (or failure to act) without making excuses. If a sub knows they can’t do something, say so. If a sub knows they are going to be out of town when they have something scheduled, let Miss RinRin know ahead of time than the day of the session or tribute deadline.


Lastly, Miss RinRin’s time is valuable. Remember she is a professional. Her subs will pay for her time. She is a fan of the idea that she first heard from Mixtrix – if a sub contacts a woman for something that will be used to arouse the sub or get the sub off but refuses to pay her, the sub is looking for someone to use, not a Mistress to serve.

 
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Types Of Punishments For Subs Who Don’t Obey

It depends on each sub and their limits, likes, dislikes, and if Miss RinRin and the sub have a contract. The easiest is fees – the requirement of sending an extra tribute to make up for failure is pretty standard and universal. Others include physical/pain punishments, being ‘grounded’ (not allowed to go out with friends or family for a certain time), general tasks (writing lines, etc), chores, being disallowed from sessions with Miss RinRin for a certain time or until the issue is resolved, humiliating tasks, etc.


If the offense is great enough, the sub will be blocked and his behavior will be posted on this website and other social media for everyone to see so that any future Mistress who the sub approaches can search Google and see what the sub has done to one of the subs previous Mistresses.

 
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How Do Subs Know That Femdom and FinDom Suits Them?

There are only two ways to determine if you are meant for submission. The first is research. What type of porn gets you going? If you like femdom porn, you might just be a submissive. However, fantasy and reality are often very different. Just because you like watching a sexy Mistress kick a sub in the balls until they’re black and blue doesn’t mean that you can handle being that sub.


The best way to determine if you are built for a life of servitude to a Superior Goddess such as Miss RinRin is to find someone you trust and give it a try. Start slow, don’t go all-in for ball kicking on day one! Maybe start with something more simple, like spanking or light CBT, and if you like it, go from there. Try new things, see what you enjoy most and build on it. Never be afraid of saying, ‘this isn’t for me.’ Any good Domme will understand limits.

Miss RinRin offers all different types of sessions for all different levels. Her blackmail offers just a taste of what is really out there. Do not hesitate, try it today!